this past weekend my husband, craig, and i, along with the much-needed help of my father-in-law and my parents, added a deck onto our cottage. we have over an acre of land, and love spending time outside with our little dog, olive, but we didn't really have an outdoor space that we could enjoy. so, after a few years of talking about it, we finally planned it, got our zoning permit and broke ground.
it's funny how we put things off that we know we will enjoy. (sure, it took a weekend and about $700 in materials to make our 18 ft by 12 ft deck come together, but the enjoyment we'll get out of it is truly priceless.) so, why do we put off things that will ultimately bring us more happiness and enjoyment? perhaps we're waiting for the "right time" or for the moment when our to-do list is done, but unfortunately, those moments never arrive -- they are forever in the future.
there's a lot of truth to nike's slogan...just do it. if there's something you've been putting off (it doesn't have to be as grandiose as a weekend-long deck building project) put it on your calendar. schedule yourself a manicure, go to a yoga class or plan lunch with a friend you haven't seen in a while. replenish yourself instead of depleting yourself. put as much energy into the things you love as you do your responsibilities.
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| olive enjoying the deck |
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| isn't she adorable?!! |
so, what are you going to do that will increase the joy in your life?...
